--Method 1
SELECT
DB_NAME(dbid) as DBName,
COUNT(dbid) as NoOfConnections,
loginame as LoginName
FROM
sys.sysprocesses
WHERE
dbid > 0
GROUP BY
dbid, loginame
--Method 2
EXEC sp_who2
--Method 3
SELECT spid,
sp.[status],
loginame [Login],
hostname,
blocked BlkBy,
sd.name DBName,
cmd Command,
cpu CPUTime,
physical_io DiskIO,
last_batch LastBatch,
[program_name] ProgramName
FROM master.dbo.sysprocesses sp
JOIN master.dbo.sysdatabases sd ON sp.dbid = sd.dbid
ORDER BY DBName,spid